How does one succeed in life?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do creationists ask for proof of evolution and then ignore the answers?

Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why don't we hear our own snoring?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Have you ever forcibly sucked someone’s dick?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why is Bollywood failing?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How does it feel to have sex with a 40 year old curvy aunty?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How common is it for siblings to fight over their parents' inheritance money? What is the best way to handle this type of situation?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Is there such a thing as "left wing fascism"? If not, what is an example of a political ideology that is often mistakenly labeled as "left wing fascism"?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

What’s the saddest thing you’ve seen at your job?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do atheists want to see God so badly?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Are there any queer Space Marine Legion in Warhammer 30k or 40k?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

As a guy, how do you know you if you are considered attractive?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

That's it for today.

Who are your 5 or so favorite Quora people?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What I need from you?